Scratch that. It just happened again.
I may have found a temporary fix. I was having crashes frequently in the 3d view and haven't had any since changing this setting. In the Nvidia Control Panel try going to "manage 3d settings" under "program settings" and turning on "image sharpening." So far that appears to be working for me. I also set OpenGL rendering GPU to my 3090, power management mode to prefer maximum performance, and preferred refresh rate to highest available.
I'm running Windows 11 with an RTX 3090 on the latest gaming driver and using X13. I've tried rolling back to previous drivers, reinstalling Chief Architect, changing TdrLevel and TdrDelay values with Regedit, and several other fixes, but nothing else worked. I'll report back later if I have any crashes, but so far so good with just turning on image sharpening.