I agree with Glenn, your problem does not sound like an island room but without a plan or at least some pictures, people are just going to make random guesses.   You should not turn off the "Connect Island Rooms" feature unless you actually know what you are doing and even then there is really no reason to.   If you want to know more about why, then read my comments on this thread: https://chieftalk.chiefarchitect.com/topic/30870-mysterious-room-divider-can-not-get-rid-o